Friday, December 5, 2008

Movemeber - Week Four

It is amazing to think that November has already come and gone, which means that Movember has come and gone too! How sad... It has really been fun growing out my facial hair for a reason this year instead of what I normally do, which is to just grow it out anyway! Be all of that as it may, this is the last Movember post this year (check out the other posts here: ONE, TWO, THREE) and I thought that it would be beneficial for everyone to know something about early awareness and autism. Study after study has shown that children that have their autims diagnosed early have better communicative skills later in life than those who have been diagnosed at later ages.

So what are some red flags for which parents should be looking? Here are a few:
  • No big smiles or other warm, joyful expressions by six months or thereafter
  • No back-and-forth sharing of sounds, smiles, or other facial expressions by nine months or thereafter
  • No babbling by 12 months
  • No back-and-forth gestures, such as pointing, showing, reaching, or waving by 12 months
  • No words by 16 months
  • Loss of speech
  • No two-word meaningful phrases (without imitating or repeating) by 24 months
  • Any loss of speech or babbling or social skills at any age
It should be noted carefully though that the fact that your child or a child you know exhibits some of these things does not necessarily mean that he or she has autism. Instead, if you think any of these things apply to your child then it would be wise to ask your pediatrician about having your child evaluated. What could it hurt? Nothing at all. But delaying the evaluation could put a parent in a position to lose a lot indeed. (Check this site out for more information about early awareness of autism.)


And in case you were wondering how I look now after a full month of beard growth (the pic at the top of the post is from the end of the third week of Movemember), then here you go:


I think it is safe to say that my beard is getting a bit unruly! Thanks for reading these Movemember posts!

Sunday, November 30, 2008

The Holidays Are Upon Us

Last Sunday, our Sunday school class, Crossroads, kicked off the season with a holiday-themed service project. We all got together and put together shoeboxes full of gifts for Operation Christmas Child. It was a great time of fun, fellowship, and listening to my fabulous Christmas CD collection. (Although, it would have been better if I had my new Funky Funky Christmas CD by NKOTB at the time, but I only had the cassette until Wednesday.) We were able to fill 12 boxes for children of all different ages. It was a blessing to know we were doing even just a bit to serve the Lord this Christmas.

Thanksgiving was a lot of fun this year. Matt and I had a nice quiet day with just the two of us, the Macy's Parade (did anyone else love the Special Needs Color Guard?), and the Dallas Cowboys. I made a delicious spread of just the foods that we like to eat at Thanksgiving and could handle as leftovers. I don't like any of the canned or boxed stuff, so I got to make it all from scratch. Since Matt usually cooks for us, it was nice to make an entire meal for him from scratch (that probably sounds so lame to my homemaking friends, oh well). We had Cornish game hens, mashed potatoes with chives and cheese, cranberry-orange relish, and apple pie. We went to our friends, Paul and Robin's, place for dessert on Thursday evening, so I got my pumpkin pie fix then.

Overall, it was a wonderful Thanksgiving and I feel very blessed to have been able to experience it. I am so very thankful for my wonderful husband who does so much for me and for our family (yes, 2 people DOES a family make!!). God has been so gracious to us!!!!!

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Movember - Week Three


That's me in week three of Movember. Here are links to the previous posts: One and Two.


So I realized that in my other posts I did not give a good definition of autism or, better yet, Alida pointed out that I didn't! So here it goes: Autism is a spectrum of neurobiological disorders, ranging from mild to severe, that usually lasts throughout a person's lifetime. There are three
primary inicators used to diagnose autism: 1) Improper or repetitive use of objects, 2) inappopriate or disinterest in social interaction, and 3) delayed and disrupted communicative skills. For one to be diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder he or shee needs to exhibit two out of three of these characteristics. For some people their case might be mild meaning that they will be able to function somewhat successfully in the world. For others, however, their case may be severe meaing that they will need extensive assistance in daily living. For more information check out the Autism Speaks website by clicking HERE.

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Movember - Week Two

Here I am, in all my manly glory! It's week two of Movember and my facial hair is coming back in nicely. In a previous post I talked about how I was growing my facial hair during the month of November to raise awareness about autism, so this week I thought I would share some more facts with you. More children will be diagnosed with autism this year than cancer, diabetes, and AIDS combined. Despite this, autism research is drastically underfunded while the costs of autism spectrum disorders (over $35 billion dollars a year) are constantly increasing. You may be thinking, "Whoa! That's too big a problem for me!," and you're right! But together we can educate one another about autism, encourage our representatives to increase autism research funding, and pray for those suffering from this range of disorders (both those directly affected by autism and those who care for them). For more information, check out this fact sheet at the Autism Speaks website.

Lauren Came to Town!!

Our friend, Lauren, came to visit us this week. Well, actually, she didn't come specifically to visit us--she happened to have a conference in LA, so we got to benefit from her coming to present at the conference. She got to stay in our midget apartment (although I don't think she believed how small it was until she actually saw it)! We've known Lauren and her fabulous husband Brian from our undergraduate college days, so it was a nice blessing to get to spend time with her. We got to show her around LA on Saturday. We went into Hollywood, saw the Walk of Fame, Mann's Chinese Theatre, the Kodak Theatre, the Hollywood sign, Beverly Hills, and we ended at the Santa Monica beach for sunset. It was a perfect day--beautiful weather and a nice smog-free sky! We were super blessed to have her come. Here are some pics of our fun day:


Lauren and I at the Beverly Hills sign












Wading out into the ocean






Matt and I on the beach at sunset




Friday, November 7, 2008

Devotional: Jeremiah 1.4-19

Jeremiah 1.6-8:

"Ah, Sovereign Lord," I said, "I do not know how to speak; I am only a child."

But the Lord said to me..."Do not be afraid...I am with you and will rescue you," declares the Lord.


In the last devotional we talked about how we are called to be God's prophets - God's spokespeople - wherever we find ourselves. In the verses for this devotional we read about Jeremiah's call as a prophet. God tells Jeremiah that he has called him to be his prophet and that he did so before Jeremiah was even formed in the womb. Naturally enough, Jeremiah is a bit thrown off by this. Not only is God saying that he will be a prophet, but now Jeremiah has the weight of God's eternal design on his shoulders too.

So Jeremiah whines, "But I'm just a child." God, in his infinite wisdom, knows just what to say. In essence God simply says, "Sure, you may be a child. But that doesn't matter. I'm with you. Hold my hand. Just trust me and I'll walk you through this, no matter how hard it might be."

It is my guess that God is calling each of us to speak up for him in our worlds but we are scared. We all have our own reasons: fear of sharing our faith, don't want to sound stupid, don't want to ruffle feathers, not really that confident in our faith, whatever. God knows and he will walk with us through whatever obstacles we face. And we will face obstacles. The cross is foolishness and weakness to the world (1 Cor 1.22-25). But no matter what, the Lord whispers to each of us in our innermost beings, "I am with you and will rescue you."

Thanks be to the Lord!

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Movember - Week One

I was piddling around on the interwebs the other day and discovered something amazing -- Movember! The word "Movember" is a combination of "moustache" and "November" and the concept of "Movember" is that a man shaves on October 31st and lets his facial hair grow for the entire month of November in order to raise awareness for a cause.

So my cause this Movember is going to be autism awareness. Today 1 in 150 children are diagnosed with autism spectrum disorders, so it is highly likely that you know someone with one of these disorders or someone who has a child that does. Even though I could go on and on about autism (thanks to my beautiful wife teaching me so much about it!), I'll spare you that. Instead I'd like to challenge you to get involved with the noble cause. You can do so by going to the Austism Speaks website or the Autism Society of America website. Then click on "Get Involved" and see if any of those options are appealing to you.




So here is me before October 31st:
















And here is me just after midnight on November 1st:

Happy (Belated) Halloween

So, I meant to post this yesterday, but I came down with a case of the nasty cold and I stayed in bed most of the day. We had a lovely Halloween. We made some Halloween blondies (the opposite of brownies), dressed up Sunnie in her costume, and attended the Crossroads (our Sunday school class) Halloween party at our friend Hai's house. I love Halloween, so it was an overall great day for me...especially since I don't work on Fridays and I had the opportunity to just enjoy the day, chill, and clean in my Halloween costume. Here are some pics commemmorating the fabulous day....







All the Speech-Language Pathologists in my office dressed up as animals for work on Thursday. Clearly, I was a lion!!!



The Barnes family on Halloween:
Humphrey the Jack-o-lantern
Alida and Matt as crayons
Sunnie as a bee








Sunnie's never been thrilled about her bumblebee costume!







So, I'm not expressing any political views here, but our friends Joe and Ginger carved Sarah Palin into their pumpkin!!

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Devotional: Jeremiah 1.1-3

After discussing it with my lovely wife, we decided that it would be good for me to post some devotionals on our blog from time to time. I'm going to try really hard to make this a weekly event, so if you like what you read today, come back next week for some more!


Jeremiah 1:1-3
The words of Jeremiah son of Hilkiah, one of the priests at Anathoth in the territory of Benjamin. The word of the Lord came to him in the thirteenth year of the reign of Josiah son of Amon king of Judah and through the reign of Jehoiakim son of Josiah king of Judah, down to the fifth month of the eleventh year of Zedekiah son of Josiah king of Judah, when the people went into exile.

It is often so easy to skip right over the beginning of some of the books of the Bible. I know it is for me. I tend to think, "Eh, this is boring...I want to get to the good stuff. Feed me!" But I think that is a mistake. One of the best sermons that I remember Joe Bailey, the pastor of Speegleville Baptist Church near Waco, TX, preaching during the four years Alida and I were there was on the introduction to one of Paul's letters. In other words, the Bible is God's Word...all of it, not just that parts that we like or that interest us. So our challenge as Christians is to open our ears to hear God's Word in a text like this. So what is this text telling us?

One way that this text communicates to me is that Jeremiah's message is deeply rooted in a historical situation. Did you catch that? Read the verses again and listen for the detail that is there. Now, we aren't all sons or daughters of a priest of Anathoth, but we are all rooted in our histories too. God has placed us where we are for a reason -- perhaps to be a prophet in that very place! That might sound daunting but a prophet is simply a person who speaks for God, that is, God's representative. So being a prophet is something that all of us can do, as ambassadors for Christ who are filled with the Holy Spirit. You may be thinking, "But Matt, you don't know my family, you aren't seeing my job for what it is, you don't understand the relationships that I have, etc, etc, etc" and you would be right. But God does. He knows, he sees, and he understands...and despite those things that we might few negatively (or even because of them) he has called us (you and me!) to speak his word into those situations.

Another thing that sticks out to me in these verses is the tumultuous period of time in which Jeremiah spoke. He began during Josiah's reign, who by all accounts was a good and righteous king (2 Kings 22-23). But the tide would turn for God's people and slowly but surely the gains of Josiah's reign lapsed, so much so that God's people eventually found themselves being taken into exile by Nebuchanezzar's Babylon. Isn't it interesting, though, that God called Jeremiah to speak his word when times were good and when they were bad too? I believe that God knows what his people need and when they need it and that he calls us, everyday Christians, to speak his word courageously into those situations. There is both grace and discipline here: grace because God speaks during hard times and discipline because when things are good he constantly calls us to remember him and his provision for us. God knows that when things are bad we tend to get down and that when things are good we tend to take all the credit ourselves. He's calling us, he's calling you and me, to be his spokespersons in our world, no matter whether times are good or bad.

Will you take these challenges? Will I? Will we take seriously God's call on our lives? I hope so. It is my urgent prayer that we will!

What will happen if we take God up on these challenges? I am thoroughly convinced that by being his prophets in this world we can truly make a difference for him -- we can begin to see the world as he sees it and begin to act in accordance with his love, mercy, and justice. In so doing we will begin to bring into action Jesus' prayer: "Father...your will be done on earth as it is in heaven..."

Sunday, October 26, 2008

Pumpkin Carving


I love love love love holidays. I love excuses to celebrate and excuses to decorate and make an idiot of myself. One of my favorite holidays is Halloween (I know, we're terrible Christians, but it's not like we're slashing people, summoning the dead, and harrassing virgins). Tonight, for our date night, we welcomed a new member into our family....Humphrey. He's a lovely pumpkin with such a great personality. Meet our newest family member, Humphrey.

Welcome to the Barnes' Yard

So...We have succumbed to this insane blog world. I don't know how good I'll be at this, or how regularly I'll post, but I thought I'd give it a whirl. We figured that someone somewhere might be bored enough to want to know what's going on with us. Who's "us?" you ask. Well, "us" is Matt and Alida Barnes. We are insanely in love and are so thankful to have one another.




"Us" in a nutshell:


Who: Matt and Alida


Where: Pasadena, CA


Married: 6 years


Occupations: PhD Student/Speech-Language Pathologist


Children: Heck no, but we have a fabulous 5-year-old miniature schnauzer named Sunnie Bernice


Likes: Jesus Christ and all that he encompasses, reading, eating, cooking, football, chatting, deep thinking, traveling, learning


Dislikes: spending money, superficiality, social pressure, getting less sleep than we need



We hope you enjoy our crazy life in the Barnes' Yard.


Sunnie Bernice.....why does she often look at us so bewildered?